Levels of Intimacy in Communication LO18793

Kevin Shadix (KPShadix@randomc.com)
Tue, 4 Aug 1998 19:34:45 -0400

Replying to LO18753 --

> When I notice that I'm feeling rejected -- or before that, that I'm
> feeling stressed about how someone *might* respond to me -- I try to use
> that as a signel to look at what I'm not accepting in myself.

Great point Dale!! Isn't it funny how much meaning we humans like to add
to things? If someone says "No", it's so easy to make it mean we're being
rejected, we're a loser of some sort, or whatever. Sometimes it just means
"no". Hell, sometimes it doesn't even mean that!

Cheers,
Kevin

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