Abuse & Personal Mastery LO15398

Richard C. Holloway (learnshops@thresholds.com)
Thu, 16 Oct 1997 21:38:42 -0700

Replying to LO15368 --

David C. Rupley, Jr., MD wrote:
> Replying to Duru . . .
>
> "But I have often asked myself, on a normative/prescriptive level, _why_
> should we, as workers, look to organizations to provide the higher
> echelons of Maslov's needs? I was raised to believe that fulfillment came
> first from family and friends.

Dave, my experience is that fulfillment comes from within myself. My
family, colleagues and other loved (and unloved) ones play a significant
role in my self-fulfillment. The role each plays, of course, is
determined by the nature of the relationship--and that is frequently
determined by me. I suspect that the emptiness of relationships (which
sometimes shows up in later life) reflects the emptiness of spirit in that
wretched soul who suffers from the increasingly absent loved ones.

[Host's Note: I believe the words in quotes above are Duru's, not Dave's.
...Rick]

regards,

Doc

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